Eight Characteristics that Give a Man the Absolute Best - Mike Pilinski For a man, successfully meeting women is all about how you ACT. Period. Sure, you have to look halfway decent in the way you dress, stay groomed and not stink like the chunk of two month old polish sausage that I just found hiding in the back of my refrigerator the other day.. but the make-or-break factor is and always will be the WORDS that come out of your mouth, and the ATTITUDE that underlies it.