Social Skills

• How To Rapidly Build Social Value - Derek Vitalio
  Before you get to the Bond and Connection phase with a girl, you first need to build social value for yourself. Without enough social value, she won't reciprocate the connection and think you're just another "nice guy" trying to get into her pants. A great way to build that social value is through planned stories and routines.
  
  
• How To REALLY Win Friends and Influence People - Derek Vitalio
  There's a popular belief that you need to have a certain approach to have any success. Like for instance, you have to be extroverted and entertaining to get the ladies. It just ain't so - the ONLY thing that matters is your relaxed CONFIDENCE and the way you PROJECT that confidence, using your body. After that, it's just a matter of picking your own style.
  
  
• Social Vibing - Tyler Durden
  To me, this is a very important post. Social Intelligence. Having struggled so hard to learn it, I have so much to say on this topic. In this post I'd like to specifically discuss social vibing and insecurity (a very focused, but important peice of the puzzle).
  
  
• Vibing Framework - Jon King
  It seems there are a number of factors that will typically enable an individual to carry on a seemingly endless, engaging, and effortless conversation. However, when I look back on my experiences, both within mASF and pre, the biggest area within which I think most can improve towards this capability is vibing – ie. knowing which questions to ask, when to ask them, and how to ground and share your own personality and experiences in doing so – on any topic a conversation might lead to.
  
  
• If you can't shag 'em, befriend 'em - Unkown
  In addition to making friends with 5 guys who are good at meeting women, you want to make friends with at least 3 very attractive women. Attractive, as in, attractive to YOU! One of the major concepts David D introduced, and this was something I’ve been hearing from Swinggcat for the past year, was that in addition to making friends with 5 guys who are good at meeting women, you want to make friends with at least 3 very attractive women.
  
  
• How To Get A Social Life - Chris
  Getting a social life isn't all that hard. The problem is that most people make and keep friends without really thinking about how they do it. They just picked up the skills automatically as they grew up. If you've always been more of the shy, loner type than you'll probably appreciate some pointers. Pretty much anyone can have a group of friends if they want to. Here are some things you may want to get covered first though to make things easier:
  
  
• Complete Guide To Vibing - Spirit Fingers
  Vibing is commonly thought of in the community as “FLUFF talk,” or just filler in between your routines. Even by people who run completely spontaneous game, there’s never been an in-depth breakdown of vibing. In this post, I will cover: